The safest side of life
Hello Beautiful Souls,
I have recently had this mind shifted talk with a client to help him with confidence and optimistic outlook in life. So I would like to share the wisdom and guidance, hoping this might also help others out there that are facing the similar situation.
Are you feeling like you are a victim of unfortunate life events?
Are you feeling as if life has treated you unfairly?
Have you lost faith in yourself because often the outcome you get from your good intention and best effort is the opposite of what you would have hoped?
Often when life throws us obstacles, challenges or 'seemingly' unfair treatments, we can easily be let down by disappointment, resentment, tiredness and even anger. When all we did was to give the best we could, whether that would be effort, time, intention, hope, faith, hard work etc and all we got in return was not what we deserve. To top it up, often while we are struggling, we see others are having it much easier, better, more fortunate.
This misfortune experience contributes to pessimistic outlook in life. Unconsciously, we become less confident, self-doubt and depressed. We feel like we are a victim of our own life circumstances that which we have no control over. Hence we constantly live our life precociously under the shadow of fear and stress. We want to ensure we play it safe, we create our own fences to protect ourselves from being harm or getting hurt further. We have our minds set forth never to take the leap of faith. We live only on the safe side of life (that which we think it's safe).
Manifesting this thoughts into reality, taking even only a small step or making some decisions in life can be very difficult as we try to control as much as we can to avoid problem, to prevent things from going wrong so that we won't be in more trouble than we already have been. Simultaneously, however, we also miss the chance to embrace the lesson given, the silver lining of the unfortunate luck, the mighty opportunity to truly prove ourselves, not to anyone but, to ourselves and be fully confident, be contained in own skins, a chance to grow, to evolve and gain wisdom. Most of all, to experience the true meaning of 'life'.
Life can be tough and at times seem unfair on you but you must not see yourself as a victim of your own life circumstances because it limits your power. It makes you want to avoid challenge and/or unknown at all cost to prevent more problem etc. In truth, you must look at obstacles in life as lesson learn. They are given to you for reasons being self-growth, soul awakening, soul evolution not for you to be frustrated and feel dis-empowered by it.
So my dear beautiful soul friends, do not be afraid, do not hind, do not run away, do not turn your back against the sun, do not stay in the shadow, do not try to avoid the tiger by walking on the side of the path. Instead, earn the path fully, face it like a warrior, conquer whatever comes, gain your self-power. Realize this NOW. Take that leap of faith, liberate yourself and fly.
The safest side of life is the mind that welcome all life experiences and rise above with strength, the ability to enjoy life as it is, sometimes good, other times bad ... but you enjoy and feel thankful for it anyway because all experience makes life ... 'Life' by which you have and are here to live it by experiencing it all.
Embrace all things in life, welcome all experience, realize your own power by being confident not on the success of the outcome but the inner-knowing that you can and are confident to get through whatever come your way. Be happy simply by the fact that you are alive and you have life to live fully.
You cannot avoid getting hurt in life. You are not meant to always be safe. There is no safety in life because that isn't 'Life'. Enjoy happiness fully, enjoy pain fully, it's the collateral beauty of a thing called 'LIFE'.
Tell your life ''Come what may, I'm thankful for all''. Remember to remember that you are not a victim by your life circumstances. You have the power to choose to be a warrior because in truth, we all are. If only we realize this power, we will see the beauty of life and we can embrace our life fully.
''Fear may be there but .. fly anyway, fall if you might but .. fly again anyway''
Love and light to all,
Sherrie Silentsoul
Angels Love Guidance
